Marriage is a special bond that a couple shares. So, before you decide to bind yourself by marriage, ask yourself the most important question – are you ready to actually live your entire life with one person? Are you ready to accept another person into your life? Do you suit each other? We always think about these questions and avoid getting into a serious relationship. We are never ready for a lifelong commitment.
Why do we think that we are not ready for marriage?
- We judge everyone according to our last relationship. We think that the last relation was a failure then every next relation will be a failure.
- We think that we are financially not ready for all the expenses.
- You think that you are not ready to have kids.
- You think that you love your partner but you don’t want to spend your life with him/her.
- Nowadays the couples have trust issues.
- You think that it will interfere with your career.
And the reasons for not getting married are endless.
But you will be never ready for it; don’t search for a reason to escape. Don’t get married just because your friend or colleagues are getting married or you are getting old.
Before starting any business, we make plans but we are afraid to take our first step. Because we think that our plan is not good or you are not fully prepared for the launch.
Don’t think that you are not good enough to raise the kids, nobody is born perfect, you just have to step into a relationship and everything will work on its own. Sometimes we think that our independence will be lost and you don’t feel like sharing your personal space with anyone but one day or another you have to. Don’t get married because you are getting old and the age for marriage has passed. You are never too old to fall in love with a person. We spend our whole life waiting for the perfect person and you lose what you already had. Maybe the person you are dating is perfect for you; try to search good things for a person.
You think that your time will come to get married but maybe this is a perfect time.
It happens with everyone, we feel that we are not ready for such a big thing in your life.
Our expectations from marriage are so much, we expect them to be your good friend, mature enough to understand your problems and you. And these expectations stop us from committing to anyone. Don’t marry just because of the society and what other people will think, marry for your own happiness. You will never be ready for marriage until you do it.